Some places become home because you've always known them. Others become home because, little by little, you decide they will.
This week's Field Notes circles around that idea from a few different directions. A lyric about letting go of where you've been. A cocktail that's become part of the rhythm of everyday life. A song that trusts memory without becoming trapped by it. And a book recommendation from one of my favorite writers.
Thanks for spending a few minutes with me.
The Quote
"And if your whole thing's where you're coming from, they'll wonder why you left."
— Craig Finn, The Hold Steady
Change has a way of making us homesick, even when we know we're exactly where we're supposed to be.
When a place is still new, it's easy to spend too much time looking over your shoulder. We compare every restaurant to an old favorite, every trail to one we've already hiked, and every new friendship...
For anyone considering a move to Bend, Oregon, the idea can feel overwhelming at first. It certainly did for us when we were living in Austin. Bend has a way of sitting just out of reach until you spend real time here. Neighborhoods like Northwest Crossing, with its tree-lined streets, Compass Park at its center, and a rhythm that feels both active and grounded, have a way of changing that. What once felt like a long-shot relocation starts to feel possible. Then, before long, it starts to feel like home.
When we first started talking about leaving Austin for Bend, the idea felt too big to hold onto. It lived somewhere between curiosity and impracticality. Something you talk about over dinner, then quietly set back down.
That changed on a trip a few falls back.
We found ourselves wandering through the streets around Compass Park, i...